The Unfiltered Reality: Why Success Ain't Pretty (And How to Thrive Anyway)

March 24, 2025

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We've all seen the images: the sleek office, the high-powered meetings, the perfectly curated social media feeds. Success, as depicted in movies and online, is a polished, aspirational state. But what happens when the "fake it till you make it" mantra collides with the harsh reality of actually making it? What lies beneath the surface of those seemingly perfect lives?


In our latest episode of Total Disruption, we peeled back the layers of this illusion, diving into the raw, often messy truth about achieving and sustaining success. It's a conversation that resonates deeply with anyone who's ever chased a dream, only to find that the destination wasn't quite what they expected.

The Illusion of Perfect Success


We're bombarded with images of success that are carefully crafted to portray an idealized version of reality. The perfectly organized office, the effortless confidence, the constant stream of wins – it's a narrative that sells, but it's also a narrative that can be incredibly damaging.


As Jake pointed out, we often fall into the trap of "comparing our insights to somebody else's outsides." We see the polished exterior and assume that the internal experience matches. But the truth is, everyone has their struggles. Everyone has their messy whiteboards, their late-night anxieties, their moments of doubt.

The "Monies in the Mess"


True success isn't about avoiding the mess; it's about navigating through it. It's about finding opportunities in chaos, learning from setbacks, and emerging stronger on the other side. As Michael shared, even his experience as a CEO in a seemingly ideal corporate environment was filled with challenges and disillusionment.


Achieving vs. Retaining Success


One of the most crucial distinctions we made in this episode is the difference between achieving and retaining success. Achieving a goal is a milestone, but retaining it requires ongoing effort, adaptability, and a willingness to confront the inevitable ups and downs.


We likened success to an EKG, a series of peaks and valleys. The key is to maintain a consistent upward trajectory, even when faced with setbacks. This requires a holistic approach, focusing on emotional, familial, spiritual, personal, and professional fulfillment.


Overcoming Self-Sabotage



Self-sabotage is a common obstacle to retaining success. It often stems from setting unrealistic expectations and failing to maintain consistent activities. To combat this, we introduced the "three-day review" technique, a simple yet powerful tool for staying on track.


Every three days, take 10-15 minutes to reflect on your actions. Ask yourself: "What have I done in the past two days to move closer to my goals?" This simple practice can help you identify areas where you're falling short and make necessary adjustments.


The Power of Visibility and Impact


We also discussed the importance of visibility and authority, highlighting the transformative power of platforms like Borgio Battleground. Sharing your story and connecting with a wider audience can not only boost your business but also inspire others.


Michael shared the story of an entrepreneur who built a multi-million-dollar business and then used his wealth to give back to his community. This underscores the importance of having a vision beyond financial success, focusing on making a lasting impact.

Embracing the Messy Reality


Ultimately, success isn't about achieving a perfect image; it's about embracing the messy reality of the journey. It's about learning from setbacks, staying consistent, and focusing on making a meaningful impact.


As Jake wisely advised, seek out mentors and role models, but don't be afraid to ask about their struggles. The messy truth is often where the most valuable lessons lie.


Call to Action:


Stop comparing your insides to other people's outsides. Embrace the messy, focus on consistent action, and aim for impact beyond personal gain. And if you're ready to amplify your story and connect with a wider audience, check out Borgio Battleground.


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